How do you let go of something you never had.? And how do you stop comparing that something to everything you see? Does that even make sense? I have been told by a friend (J.H.) that I am doing this and it is my stumbling block. What if she is right? What do I do? How do I move on? How do you rid yourself of this ache and longing? And why in the heck does it have to hurt like it does? I know it goes back to strength and will power...which admittedly, I am real low on today.